The first line of the book ‘The Road less Travelled’ says “Life is difficult”. If author Scott Peck was a bit more specific, he might have said, “Marriage is difficult”. And you’re saying “Hell, yeah”.
But at the same time, is Marriage Possible? It is ridiculously, why-don’t’-people-tell-you-this? difficult. But is it Possible?
History and numerous examples tell us that it is possible and that it is worth it. At the same time, there are people saying “I can’t do this. It’s too hard.”
So here, we ask people who seem to be doing something right to share their ‘something’. It can be stories about anything – Communication, In-laws, Finances, Sex, Kids, Trust, Chores… etc.
So, if you have solved something in your marriage, consider sharing it. Your exact solution may not work for everyone but it might spark an idea. At the very least, it will give hope to those who are struggling.
I hope you consider sharing your successes and I hope something here will help you.